**************************************** he said that before he had left, he felt that he had loved me so unconditionally and that he felt I had not appreciated it. (I did, but I did a bad job of showing it). And then when the chips were down I gave it (unconditional love) right back to him. And though he mocked it for a while, one day he just saw it as an amazing thing, my faith in him and us, and it floored him. *******************************************
Well, you know where you stand. Time to rebuild. This time use mortar to set those bricks in rather than elmers glue.