lee,

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he said that before he had left, he felt
that he had loved me so unconditionally and that he felt I had not appreciated it. (I did,
but I did a bad job of showing it). And then when the chips were down I gave it
(unconditional love) right back to him. And though he mocked it for a while, one day he
just saw it as an amazing thing, my faith in him and us, and it floored him.
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Well, you know where you stand. Time to rebuild. This time use mortar to set those bricks in rather than elmers glue.

Congratulations

Kent