My H likes to talk OR, but he is quite respectful of me when it comes to talking about ow. It tends to work that we talk AROUND the subject of ow for a while and every now and then one of us gingerly tests the water- I ask a question or he offers something. I don't find that I have trouble talking about her, in fact I wish I knew more. I know there will be things I need to know and things I don't WANT to know.
We're pretty much waiting until after he breaks up with her for good and we start working on us for real to talk about it in detail.
Yes, this weekend he might be bringing her to our house. I haven't been living there for 5 months, but it still hurts me to think of her there. They are actually supposed to go away (been planned for a long time) so I doubt they will be there much.
I am going out of town, too- on a girls' road trip to see U2 (driving 11 hours), so hopefully I won't be thinking of it too much. (not possible )
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