Lee- could you just tell your H that if he feels the need to discuss OW with you then you need to be prepared - so schedule the talks. But if you feel it's too fresh still, can't you tell him that you are not ready yet to be discussing OW. Just an idea - if your H really feels the need to talk, and you aren't in the right frame of mind to listen, ask him to write it in a journal or even on Microsoft Word - and have him password protect it so nobody can read it but him. If it's a question of him needing to get things out, it just might spare your heart a little if he journals to himself instead.
-K
Lee- did you mean that literally? H is bringing OW to house this weekend?
[This message has been edited by Wintergirl (edited 05-24-2001).]
