Been thinking a lot about what H has been saying "nothing's off the table" . We have talked some about this in our R and if we try this "New start", the fact that as a young working couple trying to "do it all", we really just used to let our lifestyle carry us away... We did not CREATE what we wanted as a life, we became a slave to it.
Now's the chance, whether with him or not (and I really hope WITH) to consciously choose what kind of life to have and make it happen.
We've been bogged by debt, fast life, working every waking hour, a house filled with STUFF that all just complicates things and kept us from relating to each other also. We're talking about a simpler life. Sell our house which is "downtown" and expensive to heat for a smaller place out by the ocean. My dream. Hope we do it.
Oh, I'm simplifying it all- products, food, STUFF you name it- I just don't need it to "dose" me into contentment anymore- need real connection with me, H and others instead...
I know thins is kind of a flaky rant , but I think it's important for me to live so much more consciously than before, with much less baggage!
to consciously choose what kind of life to have and make it happen. 
