My love language is taking care of him - he thinks of it as being motherly and nurturing. When it comes to ML I want the tenderness and taking time, the romantic approach for the foreplay and then I have no problem being the animal that he wants me to be. He wants the animal right away. When we ML I often say to him "gentle" he asnweres "I don't know how".....that's as far as I got to telling him what I like...I admit that I'm more open about telling him what I don't like. I won't do AS because when we tried it it hurt like hell. Our last major fight was over it - he was trying to have it but when I confronted him about it he denied that those were his intensions. He feels that I"m not adventurous becuase I am not willing to do certain things....
