Well, just from what you have shared in your last few posts, it seems to me that neither of you really like each other very much. You might have love for each other, but the like part is just not there, and very little respect. Big problem. I don't see how either of you can "ravish" each other if you can't stand being in the same room together. Maybe you need to figure out that piece of the puzzle first before dealing with a hot sex life.
