NO! I'm sorry, that's not what I ment. He never hit me (he does get physical with inanimate objects though and that's something I need him to work on) - all I meant was that I don't let a lot of things get to me but I am a human who had a volitile temper and I still react to certain things with anger. The kicker is that those things might mean nothing to someone else but they will set me off. That's all. Just a trigger and response analogy.