Hey Lee glad to hear you're on the turn around. I'm in about the same boat right now too. I agreed I'd take H back too quickly though, should have told him I had to think about it, but that's hard to do in the moment.
So now I'm backing way off again and letting him waffle back and forth and figure himself out.
Zelda, I too would be interesed in knowing some of those techniques, I don't think H even considers he might lose me-he has always talked like in a few years we could get back together or we could be best frieds our whole lives (having his cake and eating it too). That's not reality.
