Your post made me smile first thing this morning, I am one tough chic .
I really think it is going to be the act of me pretty much giving up (in H's eye's anyway) that will be the changing point for him-if there's going to be one.
Next Thursday is our 4th anniversary. I have a card for him, blank so far. I think we'll see each other the day before to exchange some bill stuff so I'll give it to him then. Just going to write I'm thinking of him on the day nothing too gushing.
Wish me the best, I continue to distance and be ok. He's the one that has to prove things now.
H
p.s. Has anyone read the Four Agreements? It's a little book I picked up, have heard lots of good things about it. It is a good and easy read so far. Sums up four basic priniciples to follow to be happy in life. Seems like they apply to every area of life even though they sound so easy and basic.
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