Thanks Me2! That is so nice of you to say and a real booster today. I totally agree that I just worry too much that I'll make him mad and he'll file, but this weekend I did a lot of thinking and geez, he should be worrying that I'll finally blow my top over all of this! So this weekend I boxed up the clothes he had left at home (which I realized were every pair of whitey tighties he's ever owned-geez must do only boxers now) and a few other of his things. I wasn't doing it in anger, it was more of a way of a final release for me. I'm going to give them to him the next time I see him. I don't need those things in the house.

Wedding should be a blast, however, no slinkly black dress for me. I'm the maid of honer so instead imagine me in a two piece PURPLE dress with matching shoes. We'll look like a bunch of grapes! Oh well, I bought a very funky purple sequined purse to go with and I'm taking Friday off to get pedicure/manicure beforehand and my hair up in a "do" the next day . Skirt has a big slit up the back so I can still pass as a hottee-ha!

Keep lurking and giving me advice. And don't worry, I'll never be offended by anything anyone says, you guys all understand far too well .

Love ya.

[This message has been edited by Saturnh (edited 08-20-2001).]