Oh guys....I don't know. When I have done that - he's forcefully rejected everything I suggest. Saying all the stuff we LBS hear - if it was meant to be it would have been by now; ILBNILWY; he's tried already and it didn't work; said we were never really a family - he was only doing what he thought was right - all of the same old lines from the WA handbook, page 1.
And especially now - when he's saying the stress (of us) is a big factor in his health problems? I've really only been agreeing (validating?) what he's saying without committing to anything (i.e. whether I'll move or not). When I say I'll move - he freaks. When I say I'm staying - he gets PO'd. He's still at the stage where he's blaming me for everything - wouldn't going against what he says only antagonize him?
How would ya'all suggest I do this? I'm terrible at putting things into words. And he's even more terrible at translating what I say.
