That's me - b!tching up a storm!!!!! SO called - I answered instead of having D7 answer because she was upstairs with her door closed and didn't hear me calling. He asked what I was doing "Making breakfast". He said "It looks like I'm getting out tomorrow" I said "Oh?" He said "Yeah, I'll have to go in next week for the colonoscopy" I said "Oh?" He asked, "How's the kids? Where's D7?" I said "They're good, she's upstairs, I'll get her for you". Handed the phone off to D7. They spoke and he hung up without speaking with me again.
Next, I call my mom to discuss her coming up. I'm in turmoil because I have no idea what SO plans to do. Be an ass towards me, come here, go to his apartment - I have no clue. But, I'm thinking to myself, I'll have her come today, tomorrow & Friday - this will enable me to get most of the things done that I can't do without help. NOW she tells me she can't come until Friday after 12 PM. WTF? Why didn't she tell me this 2 days ago? So now that idea is shot right to hell.
This is exactly why I NEVER, EVER, EVER ask anyone for help of any kind. Because they say yes - then they say no, or it's conditional. Screw it. I've had this happen so many times in the past, I just don't ask anyone anymore for help. Because I'll ask, then I don't get it. So why bother in the 1st place?
Back to figuring it all out on my own. Vent, vent. Rant, rant. Sorry. Unless someone out there needs a mini-vacation and wants to come stay here for a few days!!
