Sorry, this sucks. First, I agree a bit with stevie. You don't HAVE to even participate in the conversation where he blames you for everything. IF you are going to "close your heart" to him when you move 2 hours away, what about doing it while still living there. If he chooses to just yell at you constantly, then let him. I somehow doubt that will happen. If you two are truly "over" to him, then why does he care so much? So he now has 4 roomates, 3 of which are his kids and the last, a woman he was once dating. Gee, does that put a damper on his dating life?
Ok, sorry for the sarcasm. I am angry too, for you. I think you do have some wiggle room here. Make sure you look at it from all angles before deciding the number available, or the description of your options.
