RB, I can say the same thought has run through my mind as well. Problem is, there's not too many choices for another job in the area we're in - 2, to be exact; losing his job would perhaps require a move to another city/state.
But anyway, he didn't quit. Not yet. Something I found interesting was that he trusted in me to have me send an email to a rival company indicating he was interested. You may wonder why from me, or my account, but it has to be that way to avoid problems with current company. And, his phrasing of it was this: "If anyone finds out, I can say I came home and NM was upset that I was so upset and she took it upon herself to look for jobs for me." And I have no problem with this. It's the way it works in this business and I've been through it enough over the last 10 years to know the legalities.
When he came home yesterday, we spent some time NOT talking. Later on, after dinner, he (again - as he said this yesterday, too) that he wanted to stay later, but he had to meet a wedding client. He had the email printed out with the directions on it, so I knew he wasn't fibbing. We were sitting out on the back porch and I found it interesting, too - that we could sit there and talk - about his work, stuff with house/yard - and it was so natural and easy. Especially weird is the stuff about the house...I mean here we are, sitting there talking like nothing is wrong, planning this, that - like our whole lives aren't in turmoil of sorts. Strange.
Anyway, there's some more, but I have to get my butt moving. Grocery store, boring mommy stuff. LOL Back later.
