This is just so damned frustrating. Especially when I can see & understand everyone's different point of view. I feel a little bit of what each of you has said.

Argh. No decisions will be made today! That's one good thing. I need time to think about this...

Thanks to all of you....I'm reading along here, BTW. Just don't know what to say to each of your posts. Although I have to ask...is the direct approach appropriate? And what's the proper thing to say? If you're not willing to work on an R with me, then don't even think about moving back here?

How do I put boundaries in place without sounding like I'm issuing orders?