My Goal - Effective Communication

[RBinBR]

NM, I don't know what's wrong with you either. Your SO has told you that he's done with the OM and wants to move back in with you, and now you won't let him until he gets down on his needs and says he's sorry or something?

I mean, if you want to insist that he go to counseling with you, if you want him to be more accountable with his time, or if you don't want him back unless he agrees to get married right away ... then go ahead and talk about it, for crying out loud. LET HIM KNOW what you want. Your SO wants to reconcile and you won't let him because he doesn't know the magic words to say because he can't read your mind.

Come on, girl!