Ok all those words and all I can focus on is the 's !!!
YOU SUCK!!!!
That, and I think you are doing REALLY well with this. Seems to me like you've take all the power away from SO and you are fully in control over your own life these days. GOOD FOR YOU! I hope you can keep that perspective.
As for the snooping, you know I agree with you. It almost never helps.
