Quick update....took SO to get the truck...during the drive, he did start talking about the purchase of this truck - almost as if he was justifying it to me. He kept going on about it...it being no frills - but he needed something, etc. I finally said, "It's OH - KAY! If you're expecting me to argue with you about it, I'm not going to. There's no reason to. You need something to pull your DJ trailer....this fits the bill." He said "I know, I know." After that, we finally got off the subject of the truck and got back to an easy flowing conversation between us.
We get back here and he asks if he could sleep here until he has to go to work tonight. I wanted to say no, but he had his stuff with him... WTH? I did say that the kids were loud - he said he didn't mind hearing the kids. OK, whatever. I let it go. This is 2nd? 3rd? week in a row now.
I laid down on the couch and he went in to the bedroom. I did not join him. Stayed on the couch. Didn't want anything to lead to...well, you know.
He got up and I kind of just stayed out of the way...made myself scarce. He had filled my truck up with gas earlier, saying I was going to need it for the drive tomorrow. Now he asked what time I was leaving - I said that I didn't know as his mother worked until 1. He said he didn't know what time he was leaving either. Then he made a comment about how he was waiting for me to come into the bedroom and I didn't. (NM doesn't bite anything here!! LOL)
Ok....I make myself scarcer...lol....he's getting ready to leave....comes up and gives me a big hug and says see you tomorrow. I said, "Well, probably not." He said why not? What are you doing? I said "I'm not sure yet, still waiting for a few calls to come in." His reply "Don't start that. You know I'll see you up there."
So, moral of this story. I didn't bite....I didn't offer up anything to him about my plans, nor did I question him about his plans. And now HE is the one presuming he's going to see me! LOL What a turn around.
