Ummm...smoking....yes, tried the patch. Now, I'm not so very proud to admit this, even through all 3 of my preganancies, I couldn't quit.

The patch, my doctor prescribed it last pregnancy. I was OK for a short while, then found myself smoking while ON the patch...not good.

No, haven't tried any drugs.

And y es, I'm trying to be more forthcoming with my responses. And, if it seems like he doesn't understand, I try to explain a little further. And I think I may have said that it made me feel bad.

As for packing in front of him...lol - no, actually my plan is to NOT remind him of it and then just be gone! Poof! Now you see her, now you don't.