Ok, so we went out to eat over lunch, small talk, nothing major. Pleasant as usual. I casually brought up the wedding, and said hey you want to brave my friend's wedding with me?
He responded with saying he had been wondering about that and if I would ask him (surprising since until C suggested it, I had no intention of asking him). He asked if that would be wierd. I said, what isn't wierd about us. He laughed and then asked if you could think about it. I said sure. I'm amazed he even asked to think about it.
So I'm sort of puzzled now, I really didn't think it would be an option for him. It may be he's too coward to tell me and will tell me no in our joint session next week, but who knows. The other thing I have to figure out is whether he sees himself as just a buddy going with me to a wedding or something more. I don't need a buddy and that's what I'm trying to get through to him.
This will be weird if he actually goes because it's in my hometown and we'll have to face my family and friends. But that is also what I believe the counselor wants to force him to do. If he's there at the bar with people he knows and they ask him "what's up with you and H" he's going to have to finally face it and give an answer. Right now he's avoiding everything. Not a bad idea. We'll see if he actually goes however, I don't think he will have the guts to go through with it.
What do you guys think. I can't figure out how he views us. And if he does go, do I then need to say something about this is only happening if you break it off with OW. What the heck?
