Hi there H! - Just out of curiosity, do you know the exact words you're gonna use when you ask your H to the wedding?

I think Kent's totally right about the reasons for distancing, and the natural effectiveness of it. For both partners. It's quite a dance, watch your partner's steps closely. And you don't always have to FOLLOW their steps, it's ok to stick your foot in there to trip them every once in a while!! In fact, it's kinda fun!!

P.S. Cross-posted a bit here with Greg, his suggestion is kinda along the lines I was thinking, too.

[This message has been edited by Jamesjohn (edited 08-07-2001).]


JJ

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