Hello all. Just my usual update. All is much the same. Just got back from a 3 day business trip from IN and MI-good to get away for awhile. As part of my new plan to back off and see if H picks up the ball, I didn't ask him to take me to or from the airport like last time. He didn't offer either. My new guy friend did instead, which was nice of him.
H did check the house for mail and feed the cat while I was gone. He owns 1/2 so I figure he can check and make sure the thing doesn't burn down. When I came back, low and behold, I have an 8 part scavenger hunt complete with little poems etc to find a "cube warming" gift for my new office-what the heck? I knew he'd know my friend would be there too.
Interesting that he left those little scavenger clues all over the house for me and guy friend to find. Guy friend was a little uncomfortable I think, but he knows the ENTIRE story. Knows I'm not quite done with h. Kind of like H wanted to make sure he had a presence in the house when we returned home maybe?
Today we had a joint session. H is still on this thing that we'll be best friends and he can just be with OW. Keep telling him that isn't going to happen. C also tells him that's very unlikely. Oh well, he's slowly figuring some things out and in the mean time I'm having a great time at life basically.
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