Thanks again Kent. I'm not obsessing about it, just don't want to completly freak out if it ever comes up.
I was reading DB book again last night and making a mental note of all the good little things H has been doing. As book said, if you've got specific big goals, its easy to overlook all the good little things along the way. At our next joint C session, if C asks me what I want to discuss, I'm going to first say I'd like to tell H what he's been doing that I really appreciate.
It's easy to start talking about what's still wrong, so I at least want to start the session on a good note.
I think I'm just wondering about him changing his mind because he's been out of town for a few days and I haven't seen him. He also told me that when he got back yesterday that OW was then going to leave town for a couple of days. Just wondering if he's trying to see who he misses more-his reasoning is whacked. Not obsessing about it, in fact I went out last night and had a great time, just wondering how he's processing things.
I'll hang loose and let whatever happens, happen .
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