Question for all of you. Just so I'm prepared, it's pretty obvious H is not fully ready to come back. If he would say he wants to go back to OW, how do I respond?
Is it with "I'm sorry you've decided to do that, I would have liked to work on our marriage" and then go completly dark? Is that about the only thing left you can do after the waffle.
Or is that the time to be more drastic, actually I realize many WA's choose to be drastic on their own then and they file.
I know several of you have gone back and forth before WA's decided they were home for real. How did you not decide, "enough is enough" and give up on them? Like I said, I'm just facing reality and being prepared.
THanks.
[This message has been edited by Saturnh (edited 05-17-2001).]
