OMG....I can so relate to the kidney stone...and yes I do think it is TUMS!!!...I ate them like candy because the doctor said they were good for me....and I had a kidney stone just a few months after having my baby....it took me over a month to pass it and it was way way way worse than any pain I have ever felt in my life....
And there was a comment made about mothering the child of OW....and not holding resentment...since my H used no BC this was something that I was prepared for....didn't have to face it....but I felt the same...I love my H...I would love his child too, even if I didn't give birth to it....
