ditto what always said, you are an amazingly strong woman, and I too think of you when I remember H's shenanigans and start to get resentful.
I don't know where you live, but when my H was away, given how much he earned, we barely got 600 per month for both kids, guess it depends how much your H earns. I do hope you guys strike a good deal with her. Hugs))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.