sorry honey, but overdue or not she is out of the pict., try to make it a point to cut donw on the time you spend pondering it, it would sicken me too though, hugs)))
My H is the king of insencitiveness, hurt me so much this past weekend, then he says things that he actually think are the truth/funny to him, it's like they don't run it through their minds again to check what they say. You dont' have to explode but could point out gently that you are not soo keen on his remarks, he might not really realize how awful it was for you. I also have to bite my tongue and not bite back but gently bring up something that bothers me.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.