Boy, I'm glad I insisted on my H having a vasectomy (actually, after two weeks of our 4th baby crying, he was more than willing, so was his choice, ultimately). At least, I didn't have to worry about him making someone pregnant. I really empathise with those who still have to deal with all that - it must be really hard. Not sure what I would've done if I were in similar circumstances.
Probably true that God only allows us obstacles that He knows we can handle.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
