Thank you for your post. I admire and respect you so much for what you've so gracefully navigated.
I'm thanking you for your beautiful reminder of the deep love and compasstion you have for your H, and that i think we all have (or else we would have all walked long ago, right?)...I needed it--today I'm having a hard time finding the love and compassion.
God bless you and your family...each and every one!