Oh and Ellie, you're right about demanding proof. But I decided when H came home that I would leave that up to him -- in fact, I've left pretty much the whole sitch up to him. His philosophy, I guess, is just to leave things alone until they blow up. That's not my philosophy, but I decided to back up totally out of this madness and let H deal with it since he's the one that created it. And he wanted to cut off *all* communication with her; in fact, he has convinced himself that she isn't preggo.
And, yes, I'm still affected by it, but I haven't been too awful miserable. OW and her pregnancy are honestly a fleeting thought. In fact, I've thought about her more today, writing on the boards, than I have since January. Not that that's a bad thing -- it's probably therapeutic for me in a way.
