Answers to a couple of your questions are in my response to PLW. Except this one:
As for the color change on her baby registry - hmmm, did she do that AFTER finding out you were having a boy, I wonder?
Nope. She knew I was having a boy almost as soon as I found out in December. H told her after we went to the ultrasound and found out ourselves.
She actually didn't "find out" she was preggo until the *day* of that ultrasound. Or at least that's when she told H. She also immediately told him she was carrying a boy. When H came back home, he continued to call my baby by *her* baby's name. I would calmly remind him of *our* baby's name until it finally stuck. That tells you how much she had pumped H's head full of sh!t in the few weeks that he was with her after finding out she was preggo.
Honestly, I still hold onto hope that your intuition is right. It's certainly proven to be right before. Thanks for your encouragement.
