Quote: BTW, I'm operating under the assumption that she *is* preggo and that the baby *is* my H's. I've accepted that.
These seem like two mighty big ASSumptions in this case. Has anybody seen her lately? (She ought to appear obviously pregnant by now). Have arrangements been made to have a paternity test done as soon as she delivers?
As for the color change on her baby registry - hmmm, did she do that AFTER finding out you were having a boy, I wonder?
Don't borrow trouble. I'm still betting she isn't even pregnant (she never sent you real proof, after all, did she?). Enjoy the here and now. And i know it's hard, but have some compassion for the strain your gullible H is under, believing he is having another child with OW (I won't believe it until I see it, personally. Her behavior was just too manipulative and full of lies. I'm guessing July will pass, and August, and no baby.).
You can't change the past - look towards the future with your H.
