Texassandy I am sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time there. Though, on a positive note, you seem to be on the right track as to how you can improve things. First and foremost, seeing a MC is a great idea. Second, focusing on self improvement and stepping away from your H’s issues a bit is exactly what you should do. The fact that you have already got his attention a bit is a really good sign.
Sandy, you indicate your H acts LD to you, but has revealed a HD side hidden underneath. Though, you don’t really share much else. How often do you to ML? Who initiates? How much foreplay is there? When you do ML, how often do you trade who controls the session? For example, are there some nights where you drive and focus solely on his pleasure and vice versa? Do you have a standard routine, or do you two change things around? For example, do you experiment with different positions and techniques? How frequently do you share “oral activities”? Yes, these are a lot of personal questions. Feel free to answer where you are comfortable and ignore where you are not. Though, my suspicion is that your answers will be pretty revealing.
By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates
