My H and I have reconciled after his infidelity. We have seen a C and have made great progress. My H is like a new man, so happy and content, and so very attentive to my needs. Everything is wonderful, but he has had to go 600 miles away for week . He flies home twice a month and emails and calls me regularly. I am missing him terribly and am feeling insecure again. He tells me I have nothing to worry about, that he loves me dearly and will never hurt our daughters and me again. I mentioned renewing our vows months ago and he didn't seem to be too interested. I mentioned it last night to him and he said we could do it next week when he returns home. The problem is he sounded less than enthusiastic. Should I push it? Are vows really that important? A I asking too much? Your input is greatly appreciated!