I'm sorry to hear your wife is acting out again.I think you are right,she is "running". Alcohol is her"coping mechanism". I just posted a message to you on Lee's thread.
Stay centered and strong for the children and realize your wifes behavior is not directed at you ,but is an inability to cope with her life.She definitey needs therapy and perhaps alcohol counseling. Have you been to Alanon?
You are doing wonderful things for the children...don't give up! Jenny
