Hey gang! I think I've decided the best way to handle the om situation is through the written word. I'm thinking of sending him AND his parole officer a copy of the following......

om,

I will no longer accept or tolerate your intrusions on the comfort and welfare of my family. W has assured me that whatever relationship the two of you had is over, that you are no longer in her mind or in her heart, and that she wishes to have no further contact with you. I believe that she is being honest with me when she says this, and her recent actions prove this to be true.

She and I are both trying to put the past behind us, and move forward with our lives. I would strongly suggest that you do the same.

I insist that you stop initiating any contact with W. This will include any letters, phone calls, voice messages, and any trespassing on our property. You are to stay away from her place of work, and you will not try to contact her through any mutual friends or acquaintances. If you choose to continue invading our lives, I will be forced to pursue any and all legal recourses necessary to assure these invasions cease and desist.

I am sending a copy of this letter to your parole officer, and will keep him informed of any situations that should be brought to his attention. This will include any efforts of renewed contact, either now or in the future, and any acts of retaliation against any members of our family.

I hope I have made the boundaries clear, and I hope you understand how serious I am about resolving this situation. Our family is seeking peace, and I WILL NOT ALLOW anyone or anything to stand in our way.


Think this will get my point across? Even if W sees or hears about this letter, well, what can she say?! What do y'all think?

(Kent - The cranial enema will be a major part of Plan C! I AM still rather inticed, though, by the head-on-the-pole stratagy! Will keep toying with that idea!!)



JJ

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