I think Di means you should Lop his head off and display it on a pole in your front yard. Thats what knights used to do .
I suggest starting with a simple warning that includes an obvious threat. Be prepared to follow thru with the threat if you make one. Calling his Parole officer is one possible threat. Ripping his head off and feeding it to his butt is another. Personally, I'm OK with either one. If this occurs on one of his visits to your doorstep, You have a good chance of avoiding any criminal charges (assuming he had the guts to call the police).
Don't get me wrong. I am not a big supporter of violence. However, I do feel that defending your home and family is a moral resposibility. You need to be prepared to use violence as a defensive tool.
Di is right in that W may view such an move in a negative manner. That would be her choice and you know how much control you have over that. All I had to do was call the suspected OM and issue a mild warning to make him disappear from my W's life. I think you need to do something.
I could say more but will abstain as I'm not coming from a warm fuzzy place right now.
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