Konfused: Sorry I have not replied / 2 week absence. I started thinking that me coming here and complaining was doing no good - so I stopped. What I tried to overlook, but since surrendered to is that I do need an outlet to get these issues out of my head.
No changes on my deal, more of the same. My W remains out of town. I thought the distance might stir something up in her. She frequently says she mises me, but does not bring up any kind of sexual related discussion. I told her this a.m. that I just cannot continue like this. She is the one I want to be with, but if it's not mutual I need something else and soon. I have a meeting with the MC tonight by myself and I plan to tell MC that I cannot go on with this permanently. Pre-marriage was great and frequent sex and post marriage (from day 1) sex is maybe 1x every 2 months. Currently I think it'c coming up on 3 months for this spell.
Also I plan to discuss with the MC if it's ok that I cut her off. By that I mean defining who is responsible for what and just doing my stuff, giving regular monthly monies - but not one cent more, no extra help from me on her responsibilities and no help on managing her ex-h issues or anything else. Maybe some see this is wrong and I'd welcome your suggestions, but I feel I have to make some steps forward and see if she steps with me or we step in different directions.
