I often feel confused myself. It's like I keep giving and giving, but nothing is returned. I think that I need to stop giving for a while.
If you let this sex thing get in your head, it will twist up your thought process.
A while back she had said something about being "officially" separated while she was gone on this upcoming trip. I am not sure what "officially" means, but I guess it means you decide who gets what assets.
You know, as you said about your wife, I do miss mine when she is gone. But to be honest, it does not really a matter if she is physically gone or not. Even when she is there - I miss her, the girl I married 2 years ago. She has not been that girl since we said I do.
I am sorry your wife will not go to C. Mine goes, so long as it suits her. When she diagrees with MC, she just blows it off as I said before.
As for he leaving...you know what? I sometimes wish she would. I am so tired of being tired. No matter what else I "give in" on or tasks handled or items purchased, I do not get much, if any, positive feedback from her. It's like she is just waiting it out as long as she can (watching assets grow and love fail).
P.s. You did not hijack my post...I am glad everyone here has a place to vent and seek advice.
