I need someone's perspective. Somethings that are going on seem to point to my W's departure. Am I reading this wrong?
MC told her that the M would flat out fail without sex and she has responsibility to try. She was both offended by this and effectively blew it off. When the MC makes a point to that favors her, she's all for the MC. When MC makes one that favors me, the MC does not know anything and she is not doing it. She says we can schedule sex and she'll just "put up with it". Gee, thanks!
She is going on annual summer trip to see family, will be gone for 30 days. Last year, it was longer. When she is gone, her normal financial responsibilities just get transfered to me. I.e. not there, not her problem.
She is very persistent that we fix her credit. This is fine and good. However; it seems like we might just be paying off her debt so she can leave debt free.
She has been doing the pre-emptive "I so tired" every night when I get home. At this point, it's not like I expect anything. However; it seems she is just trying to avoid any sex before she leaves on the long trip.
She'll call and say she wants me to come home. When I ask why, she says she wants to see me. If I do go, she is involved in something esle by the time I get there and just ignores me. What's the point? To piss me off?
Same thing about sex. She'll say she "was" horny, but did nothing about it.
When I claim I am tired or frustrated or whatever, she comes back with "you're so funny" and proceeds to tell me how her life (as compared to my current issue) is so much harder in x, y, z categories. I mean, forget the fact that I have to manage everything except the house keeper and the kids (day time), what could I possibly be stressed out about?
I mean really...come on, it's like she incapable of seeing anyone else's perspective and certainly does not see or care about mine.
There seems to be a lot of wants; financial and emotional support (which never seems to be enough regardless) - but very little give from her end.
The MC asked her if she was trying to get me to divorce her. She was surprised by that comments and said "no." So anyway, it's not my mis-perceptions if the MC says it.
Good gosh, what have I gotten myself into? Someone tell me I am crazy for putting up with this.
