I dont know that I would pressure her into it. I dont demand it of her, but I will give her a massage and it goes further or things just seem to happen. Lately, she is just not open to it at all. This would not amount to much, but combine that with the lack of interest in actively participating with the family, and the fake hugs and kisses and there it is.

BTW: I did not mean to hijack your thread.

Thanks