Quote: Anyway, the fact is my wife is now ND and doesn't want sex. She truly sees the lack of sex as my "problem" - after all she has no desire for sex so why is that her problem.
If sex is your problem, then tell her that you will assume responsibility for your sexual needs. Tell her that you will see other women "just for sex". She should have absolutely no problem with this. Afterall, it will be a man taking "Responsibility" for his sexual needs, right?
It amazes me that in this day of information that their are people out there that see it as "normal" to not have sex with their spouses. There are a bizillion self help books on relationships out there and almost NONE of them would suggest that lack of sex is a good thing in marriage, and yet your wife thinks it is ok?
