It was not a contract, but we had a series of discussions surrounding expectations and compatability for marriage. Call me crazy, but I wanted to discuss (before marriage) these issues; such as money, kids, religion, sex, etc, so as to be on the same page and avoid a potential misunderstanding. Remember, there are pre-existing kids (hers) so it's not just the two of us to be concerned about. The MC, we have now had to stop going as frequently...it's very expensive. Therefore; I am mostly back on my own to deal with this issue. This past week, I got some more comments from her that she was interested or wanted to ML and then, as the norm, nothing actually happened. This is even more frustrating. She also said that we just ML the other day, when actually it was weeks or months ago.
It's so annoying and frustrating to feel like I have to be constantly appeasing to her in the hope that maybe maybe she will become interested.
I am at the point now where I just want to tell her, look-I understand, it is what it is. I recognize she loves me in some way, but she is just not interested in me. And that perhaps I should stay away for a while and tell the kids that I am out of town on business.
Anyway, sounds like I am not alone here. While it's nice to get feedback from people in a like situation, I feel for you and wish you all were not where I am.
