Your situation sounds exactly like mine, except that I've been married for 9 years. My wife and I have never been to counseling and she has never made any effort that I'm aware of (i.e. doctor, therapist, etc.) to find out what caused her to lose her libido, but otherwise I could have written your post. With respect to the following:
Quote: She has gone to Doctors and Therapists to figure out why she lost her libido (and the timing is suspect as it happened right after we got married and has stayed that way ever since).
I have a theory on why my wife seemed to lose all interest in sex and romance the very moment we were married. I honestly don't think it was anything intentional (i.e. bait and switch) although that thought has crossed my mind many times. I think that when my wife and I were dating, she had a fear of ending up alone which motivated her (subconciously) to make me happy so I wouldn't break up with her. Once we were married, that fear suddenly disappeared, and with it her motivation to make me happy. I believe that she still loves me just as much as she used to, but with everything going on in our lives, I have become her lowest priority. I'm sure there are other factors involved, but I was curious to find out if anyone else has thought this before. Of course, even if I've hit the nail on the head, I'm not sure how it will help to make anything better.
