Geez...I feel like you're telling my story. Her kissing you with closed mouth, I can totally relate. I haven't had a real kiss in 2.5 years. All I get are pecks and I've told her how important real kisses are to me.
Have you tried scheduling sex?
I'm experimenting with this right now with my girlfriend. We do it twice a week. It's still bad sex, but at least I know it will happen and so she doesn't feel pressured by me.
I have a lot of patience like you, but after 2 years I'm ready to give up. We're not married and were about to sell our house. So the sell of the house is the crossroads for me.
