Quote: Anyway...I do not know how long I should stay. I know I will not be happy "as is", but also do not want to quit.
Then don't quit!
I have felt like this so many times in my own situtation. Just ready to throw in the towel and move on. But then I take a deep breath and take another step. IMO, Giving up is the easy part; sticking it out takes the guts.
It sounds like you make life very easy for your W. (Maybe too easy?) Can I ask? Do you do things with her? Hang out, play games, go to a game, shop, go to movies, etc? Are you friends?
Quote: In a counseling session she said she did not trust me. When asked to cite examples, she gave none. I have racked my brain to figure out why she would not trust me and then it dawned on me that maybe she does not trust me because she herself is hidding something. Maybe that's paraniod...I do not know.
Did you ask her outside of your session why she didn't trust you? Also, you said that she doesn't work etc... do you have children? What DOES she do all day?
There are people on here alot more qualified to answer your questions... but these were the ones that popped into my head right away...
Gub 