I hope I'm not making you repeat yourself, if I am I apologize. Would he go to MC with you, or area you two already going?
He obviously doesn't get that you require this physical connection with him in order to have and maintain a satisfactory emotional connection within your marriage.
I've found that with my H one of the biggest hurdles for me to overcome was to get him to see that a somewhat regular sexlife with him is something I REQUIRE in our M. That I needed HIM to make efforts in that area too and not leave it strictly up to me. I honestly believe he simply did not believe that I (a woman, duh!) needed/wanted sex with my H. My H had become conditioned to believe that women have sex....but we don't necessarily want it or need it.
Is it possible this is also the case with your H? If you think it might be....then MC is a must.
