JJ, You got it. Distance scares her. You can sense it when you start to pull away. Keep her thinking. The C session would be the perfect time to announce your exhaustion over W's failure to end the R with OM and her continued dishonesty. You don't need to say your leaving. You just up the ante a bit. You deliver the message that this game is gonna be ending soon, one way or the other.
How dim have you tried going? How long? Have you considered suggesting to W that you need a break from the R to do some re-evaluation of what you want. Whenever I pulled the sudden night away cus I needed to think about stuff, W would pursue bigtime.
Just a thought JJ.
You are not expecting too much from your W. She needs to end the R with the loser if she wants to stay with you.
