Thanks, Kent. I needed that. My thoughts were running along the same line, been thinking about suggesting to her that she move back into the spare bedroom until the 2 of them could find their own place. Things have been going so well lately, and I have a tendency to be over-protective of her, so I've had some hesitancy to do that. It probably is the best thing. She's been involving her job, her church, and her family in her lies the past few days. Maybe it IS time for a little wake-up call. It just doesn't feel right to wait this episode out until she works through it on her own. I've been giving her a chance to be honest with me, to help rebuild trust, and it didn't work this time.
With all the other things going on in her/our life lately, I've really been questioning myself if staying with her is the right thing for me. If the HP is testing & conditioning me, or telling me to get the heck out of there. Have to keep my emotions out of this. MUST DISTANCE!!! For my sake if nothing else. Thanks, bud.
JJ
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