Things are going ok. Went to a bball game last night with a bud, last minute thing. Called W and didn't really ask about going, just told her that's where I'd be.
Seems like W's been distancing a bit, so I'm doing the same. She's starting to ask questions and make comments about things I did while we were separated. I'm trying to be a little vague, but being honest when she asks specific questions. She asked again about the call from a lawyer's office that was on my phone log. She's having a problem with a LF I had, this is a topic that's coming up more and more. Is this a good sign, that she's worried about that relationship? She did get a little pissy about it last night, about why she should feel so guilty about what she did when I was seeing someone else. I've decided to be honest with what I tell her (best policy, right?). It was a friendship/support relationship, I guess what might be considered an EA. It may have eventually turned into something more, but it didn't.
She's asking questions about what I've done the times I left when she's disappeared recently. She's becoming more and more curious about my life, and is thinking I'm hiding many things from her. She's pretty stuck on some things that happened in the way past, we need to put some of these things to bed, and let them rest.
I'm not quite sure if she's searching out for things I've done to help her justify her actions, or if she's a bit scared about my feelings on OR right now. Will try out the list suggestion that Kent gave to Lee on her thread. And keep my eyes open, and my nose clean!!
Any thoughts on this?
JJ
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